EMOTION REGULATION: HELP YOUR CHILD GAIN CONTROL OF THEIR EMOTIONS
Raising kids can be a challenging and rewarding experience. As parents, it is important to help them learn to regulate their emotions. Emotional regulation is the ability to recognize and manage emotions in a healthy way. Like many other abilities, emotion regulation is a skill that children need to learn as they grow and develop. Children with good emotional regulation skills are more resilient in the face of everyday challenges and life’s inevitable tragedies.
There are a variety of strategies that can help children learn to regulate their emotions:
1- The first step is to help them learn to identify and name their feelings which is called emotional awareness. This can be done by labeling emotions when they arise, such as saying “you seem angry right now” or “you seem happy right now.” This helps them to become more aware of their emotions and understand how they are feeling.
2- Another important strategy is to help kids learn to manage their emotions in a healthy way. This can be done by encouraging them to talk about how they are feeling and helping them find constructive ways to express their emotions. For example, if they are feeling angry, they can take deep breaths, go for a walk, or draw a picture of their feelings.
4- It is also important to help children learn to manage strong emotions when they experience them. Coping strategies are activities that can help calm them down. Activities that engage their senses can be particularly calming, such as taking a shower or bath (touch), listening to music (hearing), and swinging or dancing (proprioception).
5-Parent modeling is another crucial part of emotion regulation. When parents model healthy ways of expressing emotions, such as talking through their feelings, children are more likely to learn how to do the same. Parents can also model positive coping strategies to help their children when they are feeling overwhelmed. By demonstrating these strategies and showing that it is ok to have and express emotions, parents are teaching their children to effectively regulate their emotions in a healthy way.
Emotional regulation is an important part of a child’s development. As parents, it is our responsibility to help our kids learn how to manage their feelings and develop effective strategies for dealing with difficult emotions. By providing a supportive and loving environment and modeling healthy emotional regulation, we can help our children become emotionally competent and resilient individuals.
Dr. Stephanie Leon
Dr. Leon is a clinical psychologist and neuropsychologist practicing in the province of Ontario and Quebec. She works with children, teens, and their parents to address emotional, behavioural, and cognitive difficulties.
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